Recently, I made the move from Kansas to Colorado for a new job, and one thing I’ve quickly noticed is how incredibly active everyone around me seems to be. 

Whether it’s hiking, skiing, or any other outdoor activity, it feels like this state was made for the physically adventurous. Which I had anticipated this to some extent, given Colorado’s natural beauty and the plethora of outdoor opportunities it offers. What I didn’t quite expect, however, was the subtle but palpable judgment for not fully embracing the outdoor lifestyle.

It’s not that people are outright critical or unkind, but there’s a certain stigma I feel when they learn that I’m not an avid hiker or skier. The underlying question seems to be, “If you’re not into these activities, why did you move to a place like this?” It’s as if the natural beauty of Colorado comes with an unspoken expectation that everyone must partake in its outdoor adventures. When I initially moved here I did have plans to do all these things and I still might but I’m new I’m still learning, can’t expect me to hike alone on my first week in a new state.

I moved here precisely because it’s beautiful, and indeed, the view from my apartment window is breathtaking. Some might say it’s a hot take or an exaggeration, but the truth is, there’s something incredibly fulfilling about enjoying the beauty of Colorado from the comfort of my own space. Of course, some experiences are best had in person, and I acknowledge that the true essence of the mountains is better up close. Yet, there’s also something to be said for the peace I find within my own four walls. Also, the views from my 4 wheels on my daily commute are indeed something to write home about. Below is a picture of what it’s like on my drive. 

Admittedly, my reluctance to dive into outdoor activities is partly due to the fact that I live alone in a new city. Exploring new places alone, especially when you’re unfamiliar with the area, can feel daunting. I’ve seen enough about the risks associated with hiking alone (murder), and it’s made me more cautious. Safety is a valid concern, and the thought of potentially encountering danger while trying to enjoy what should be a relaxing activity is disheartening.

Moreover, I don’t see anything wrong with simply enjoying the space I’ve created for myself. One it is expensive so I should enjoy it for how much I’m paying for it; Two I decorated this place to be the comforting, cozy place I need to recharge after a long day at work. After 8 hours of socializing a day, I need my own space more than ever. My favorite hobbies are indoor activities, and that’s where I find my inner peace. Whether it’s reading, crafting, or simply relaxing, these quiet moments are crucial for my well-being.

Also, another player in this is that my job is a very active one where I average 13,000 steps a day doing physical laboring activities and so the last thing on my mind is going for more strenuous activity outside in the heat. However, when I moved to town before my job started I did try some new workout classes to meet people. And while the movement was nice, I didn’t come out with what I went into it looking for. Also, this was during my initial move and I was hopeful and curious, but I found it not to be fulfilling or sustainable. 

Furthermore, why does everyone in Colorado have an extensive concert background? I’ve been to one concert in my life and it was through my school. How do people how the money to be going to that many? Feels like another bit of criteria was added to the list of things to make me feel like an outsider.   

In a place like Colorado, where outdoor pursuits are so ingrained in the culture, it’s easy to feel like an outsider if you’re not following the crowd. However, it’s important to remember that everyone has their own way of connecting with their environment. For me, the balance of enjoying the natural beauty from a comfortable, familiar space is just as valid as any hike or ski run.

So, while I might not be hitting the trails or slopes every weekend, I’m still soaking in the beauty of Colorado in my own way. And that’s perfectly okay.

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